Quebec school officials warning parents about disturbing TikTok challenge
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School officials in Quebec are warning parents about a disturbing challenge circulating on social media that incites youth to take their own lives in a bid to receive flowers on Valentine's Day.
The challenge is spreading on the popular TikTok app, according to letters that went out on Tuesday.
The Eastern Townships School Board said in its letter that it was important to warn parents immediately since TikTok users are urged to take action on Feb. 13.
"Our intention is not to alarm you but simply to make you aware of the existence of this challenge so that you can be vigilant about any unusual behavior in your child or teenager," the letter states.
The board is encouraging parents to talk to their kids about their mental health and their social media consumption, and to watch for any warning signs that they might be in distress, such as isolation, anger outbursts, frequent crying and changes in internet habit.
"Some may downplay the impacts of such a challenge, but our school board prefers to act in prevention and awareness," wrote Emmanuelle Gaudet, a school board director, in the letter.
Instead of banning the use of social media apps, the head of the school board wants to take a more education approach to inform students and their parents about what's going, said chairperson Michael Murray.
"You can never take these things too lightly," he said in an interview.
"There's a risk and we try to make the tone of our communication calm and reassuring but to give information to parents who might not know this circulating on social media."
Such challenges on social media are part of the reality that students in the digital age face, he said.
"The kids are on social media, they will be on a different social media and so we have to teach them to use their brains in a way that protects them from the negative consequences that certain actions would entail. As an educational institution, we are focused on getting the people the information they need in order to deal with what they face each and every day," Murray said.
The board recommends parents take certain steps, including:
- Listen without judging
- Ensure that suicide is not an option
- Promote positive problem-solving attitudes
The Marie-Victorin school service centre, on Montreal South Shore, sent a similar notice to parents.
"It's a challenge in very bad taste," read the notice, which also urges parents to talk with their children if they observe any unusual behaviour.
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